Addiction – Tackling the Problem within the Family

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Parents who have children with addiction often understand that the addiction has taken over their children’s life.  To the point where they are unrecognisable. These parents may have had to resort to legal help to forcibly remove their child from the home and into a rehabilitation programme. When a person has an addiction the entire family is affected, but family can be the biggest source of support for a person suffering from addiction.

How do I get them to stop using?

Many parents will ask the question- How I talk to them to get them to stop using? Getting into conflict with an addict is the wrong way to approach the situation. For them the only thing that is right, against any kind of rationality, is their addiction.

It is easy to feel sorry for the addict and to not want to cause any more pain than they are already experiencing or it is too hard to fully acknowledge the problem and have to deal with it and the long road ahead. Therefore it is hard separating the person from the person with the addiction.

Very often, for example, within a marriage in which one of the partners has a substance abuse problem, the other will ignore it. Rather than facing the problem head on as they may think it will potentially create or cause more problems than they are already facing.

Sometimes a mere loving suggestion is helpful. But as the abuse of a substance grows into addiction, such a suggestion is meaningless.

Tackle the Addiction Problem

Depending on the situation, rather than repeatedly going through the pain of endless arguments over their using, bluntly tackling the problem is the best solution. In order to gain help with this an intervention can be staged. An interventionist is professional who is trained to implement the best strategy in helping an addict seek treatment. In other words, it can be a huge help to seek professional support in overcoming the addict’s denial. Allow the interventionist to be your coach.

With Addiction Step Back

By allowing an independent third party into your situation, you are giving yourself an opportunity to take a step back. While still doing the right thing and being a helpful part of the scenario. People can easily go great lengths of time without ever knowing what they should do whilst the addict is spiraling deeper and deeper into their addiction. Having an interventionist help with the first step is necessary.

If the intervention results in the addict disallowing treatment or any help and continues their path of addiction you will still know that you sought the help of a trained professional. It is just not the right time for the addict to recognise their problem. You will have the tools and knowledge of what to do if you want to intervene again. Seeking professional help and getting the addict into treatment is a strong, loving move. Finding and supporting a treatment plan for a loved one with addiction is the right thing to do. It is providing loving, emotional and practical support.

Call us today at The Haynes Clinic for help and advice on 01462 851414