Why Go To Alcohol Addiction Rehab?
Rehab is discovery, Alcoholics Anonymous is recovery – so goes the saying and I believe it.
When I was actively drinking and miserable, in 2005, I got to a point where I knew my problem was alcohol. However, I was still too proud to admit this was the case, and I was still minimising my drinking to all around me. I remember going to my well woman check up and saying that I drank about 28 units a week. That is no improvement on 3 years ago, the nurse said. Given I knew it was more like 128 units a week, my first thought was ‘thank God I managed to lie consistently so I wasn’t caught out’. I was getting very low, depressed and stressed and I went to see the doctor but still told him I only drank 3 – 4 glasses of wine a day. Again I got the ‘that’s too much’ response but I was not admitting the true extent of my alcoholism.
Detoxed But Not Mentally Fixed
To cut a long story short, I eventually asked for help for my stress and depression and used my BUPA to go to a very nice clinic. On admission, I told the psychiatrist that actually I knew what the problem was – I drank too much! She told me to stay at the clinic to detox, relax (do a bit of flower arranging, attend a few support group sessions run by the nurses) and when I went home to take antabuse (which makes you sick if you drink with it) and stay off alcohol for a year. I was cured!
The Reasons Why I Drank
The problem was, I had got off the alcohol dependency physically, but had not dealt with the reasons I drank. I was intelligent enough to realise that I was happier not drinking. But as I had been told to leave it at least a year. I had it in mind that at some point I would drink again. The opportunity arose much sooner than that (after 3 months) and I did.
The madness of it was that I was at a work dinner and decided that if I did not have a glass of wine, people would notice and think I had an alcohol problem! So I had one glass – that was all. I did not particularly enjoy it. I got away with it. So what happened? I didn’t get away with it! Because I had had just one, the next night I thought I could do it again. I had two. And the next night….. Within a week, I was in the full blown misery of very heavy drinking again.
Rehab Saved Me Mentally
I struggled on for a further 3 years! Stopping with my massive will power for a couple of months, drinking for a period, stopping again. It was total and absolute hell for me and my family. The problem was I had not had any chance in that smart clinic in which I did my flower arranging to do any work on myself. That only came – the discovery of me and my personality, characteristics and issues – when I went into rehab.
The Haynes Clinic is an alcohol, gambling and drug rehab clinic which offers detox and counselling for people with addictions.
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